Single Moms! A sensitive topic.
This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and we are taking this topic to the next level. It is time to speak the truth.
When I say a single mom, I do not mean widowed, I do not mean divorcee, but I mean a single mom.
Lets's go back in time, you know, high school maybe, teenager life why not, okay good, stop right there!
So, what we got here! An innocent girl who is in love with a boy, not yet a guy, they are both kids, no parents supervision, with the media and internet nowadays, there are no limits, pop music, rock, RN'B, rap, hip hop, you name it, everyone trying to blindly imitate the super stars, everyone want to be a STAR.
The lyrics touch the soul and abuse it to the limit, with the absence of supervision, you get a lost generation who refuse to live and accept reality and choose fantasy over reality, and who does not?
When you are too young to take a decision, when you are in a dilemma between following your mind or your heart, don't we all have been there?
So here is one out of hundreds scenarios that the society is ignoring...
The girl who fell in love with a guy in school, she has a crush on him, both are living in their own bubble, she wants to prove her love to him, on the other hand, he is waiting for a prove from her end, living the moment, exploring each other, no limits, no boundaries, no parents, no nothing.
She wants to feel sexy and wanted, too early for this? Well, she has different opinion, actually both of them has different opinion, but they don't understand the consequences of their own actions. Too young? Again they both have different opinion, free world, freedom, new world order, be what you want to be.
Temporary happiness that ruins a woman's life forever; because she gets pregnant without a marriage.
The Kid, gets panic, OMG! I am a father? Now he realize he is too young to be a father, he finds his way to break up with her.
What are her choices, she is having a baby on the way, i am not going to talk about how she will deliver the news to her family, it is indeed a tough process, specially if she came from poor family.
She drop her school, looking for cheap job, because she is not even a graduate, wants to prove to her family and her society that she is adult and she can take of herself.
Girl, you are very young and beautiful, you don't have to go through this, you are valued, your body is sacred, why you need to do this to yourself? Because the truth is, you don't need to prove anything to anyone.
Wait for the right time, the one who have created you and brought you to this world will never forget about you, you are not suppose to suffer, you are suppose to life your age, and graduate, and chase your career, and make your dreams come true.
The time and energy you will waste on the wrong relationship, you can use it to invest in your self, work out, no need to go to GYM, not everyone can afford it, workout at home, be sexy for your future husband, marriage is beautiful and worth waiting for. But be careful, you don't need to be with a guy who appreciate how sexy you are, big mistake, you want a guy who appreciate your mind, your character, no one is perfect, and your mind matter.
The media is telling you, in order for you to be a lady, you have to show more the society, don't fall for this girl, you are not an object, you are not an item, you are a beautiful creature that God brought to the world, to teach and educate generations after generations, bring leaders that the world needs, you are meant to be a leader not follower, you are matter.
Teenage is not an easy stage, but if you work on your self steam and confidence with working out and eating healthy food, you will find your self in way different bubble, you will be in control of your life, not some douche will control you.
I have seen and experience so many things in life, I have talked with so many people, you can trust me on this when I say it, live your own age, work out, eat healthy, and the time will fly and you will be amazed with how this effected your life.
But I have to say, there is always good men out there who is taking care of their women. Also there is bad women who chose to do wrongs. There is good parents as well who knows how to take care of their children, there is too many good examples out there in every society.
The purpose behind this post is to offer help as much as we can, for those who are seeking the help.
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This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and we are taking this topic to the next level. It is time to speak the truth.
When I say a single mom, I do not mean widowed, I do not mean divorcee, but I mean a single mom.
Lets's go back in time, you know, high school maybe, teenager life why not, okay good, stop right there!
So, what we got here! An innocent girl who is in love with a boy, not yet a guy, they are both kids, no parents supervision, with the media and internet nowadays, there are no limits, pop music, rock, RN'B, rap, hip hop, you name it, everyone trying to blindly imitate the super stars, everyone want to be a STAR.
The lyrics touch the soul and abuse it to the limit, with the absence of supervision, you get a lost generation who refuse to live and accept reality and choose fantasy over reality, and who does not?
When you are too young to take a decision, when you are in a dilemma between following your mind or your heart, don't we all have been there?
So here is one out of hundreds scenarios that the society is ignoring...
The girl who fell in love with a guy in school, she has a crush on him, both are living in their own bubble, she wants to prove her love to him, on the other hand, he is waiting for a prove from her end, living the moment, exploring each other, no limits, no boundaries, no parents, no nothing.
She wants to feel sexy and wanted, too early for this? Well, she has different opinion, actually both of them has different opinion, but they don't understand the consequences of their own actions. Too young? Again they both have different opinion, free world, freedom, new world order, be what you want to be.
Temporary happiness that ruins a woman's life forever; because she gets pregnant without a marriage.
The Kid, gets panic, OMG! I am a father? Now he realize he is too young to be a father, he finds his way to break up with her.
What are her choices, she is having a baby on the way, i am not going to talk about how she will deliver the news to her family, it is indeed a tough process, specially if she came from poor family.
She drop her school, looking for cheap job, because she is not even a graduate, wants to prove to her family and her society that she is adult and she can take of herself.
Girl, you are very young and beautiful, you don't have to go through this, you are valued, your body is sacred, why you need to do this to yourself? Because the truth is, you don't need to prove anything to anyone.
Wait for the right time, the one who have created you and brought you to this world will never forget about you, you are not suppose to suffer, you are suppose to life your age, and graduate, and chase your career, and make your dreams come true.
The time and energy you will waste on the wrong relationship, you can use it to invest in your self, work out, no need to go to GYM, not everyone can afford it, workout at home, be sexy for your future husband, marriage is beautiful and worth waiting for. But be careful, you don't need to be with a guy who appreciate how sexy you are, big mistake, you want a guy who appreciate your mind, your character, no one is perfect, and your mind matter.
The media is telling you, in order for you to be a lady, you have to show more the society, don't fall for this girl, you are not an object, you are not an item, you are a beautiful creature that God brought to the world, to teach and educate generations after generations, bring leaders that the world needs, you are meant to be a leader not follower, you are matter.
Teenage is not an easy stage, but if you work on your self steam and confidence with working out and eating healthy food, you will find your self in way different bubble, you will be in control of your life, not some douche will control you.
I have seen and experience so many things in life, I have talked with so many people, you can trust me on this when I say it, live your own age, work out, eat healthy, and the time will fly and you will be amazed with how this effected your life.
But I have to say, there is always good men out there who is taking care of their women. Also there is bad women who chose to do wrongs. There is good parents as well who knows how to take care of their children, there is too many good examples out there in every society.
The purpose behind this post is to offer help as much as we can, for those who are seeking the help.
This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting. Too young to suffer!
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhammfarah
My website: https://www.adhamfarah.com
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