Philippines Law - Simple & Easy [How to protect yourself and your beloved ones]

Law in the Philippines!

Hi, this is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and in this topic we will talk about Law. Well, not really....actually...let's just see then.

Here is something I have learned living abroad. If you are living in country, or decided to live in specific country, you must learn and educated yourself about the law that this country is running by - Running buy? I am not sure if this is a real sentence -.

Among all the things you might or might not know in  your life, whether it is about economy, religions, sports, even local news, knowledge of the law has always been more powerful than anything else.

I am not going to complicate things to you and tell you that the Law can change countries routines and regimes, and can start a world war or can destroy nations.

I am talking to you from a very basic understanding of the law, and how it will affect your life as individual.



Alright! So the law is not a small book, its hundreds of thousands of books, so what exactly I am looking for.

On daily basis, you have to know what is considered a crime, what is a felony, a misdemeanors, or infractions?

After know those definitions or terminologies, find out the penalties whether if it is a prison time (how long is it), or a fine (how much is it).

Why you need to know that? First of all, to avoid to committing it. Second of all, you have to know your rights, and there is certain lines in your life, no one has the right to cross it, whatsoever.

The beauty of the law, it is applied to everyone one, including the president of the country itself.

I know there is those specific people who are always above the law, always know, with the proper evidence and witnesses and power of the social media now, pretty much the justice will take place, no matter which class you belong to, you just need a class A Samsung made in Korea with a camera, and you are good to go, the bottom line is, nowadays, it is easy to get a evidence.

And by the way the "above the law people", yes they are real, and they do exist in every country, but let's be honest, you really think that for an average person, you will ever even meet them? I doubt it, and believe you don't need to meet them, and they don't want to meet you either.

I am talking about the people you are dealing with on your daily basis, at work, at school, in the street, your neighbors, your manager at work, your colleagues.

People who is always good in annoying you, piss you off, insult, or offend you, and they think they are funny.

Well, let me be a little bit in your faith, and tell you, no more.

How to react? Specially if we are facing sexual harassment, or sexual gesture, offense, insulting, discriminate by any shape.


  1. Rule # 1, Don't feel sorry for anyone, because no one felt sorry for you.
  2. Rule # 2, Don't apologize when you complain, (I am really sorry that I have to do this, because you are not and they need to know that.
  3. Rule #3, Be straight forward (Example: I live in the Philippines; search for the article number that this person has broken and mention this in your message/email).


"This person has committed a violation against (me / or your beloved ones) according to the congress of the Philippines, Republic act No. 9262, by using verbal harassment, I hope this person can afford to have a lawyer; and ready to ruin his life with imprison and penalties he will pay."

Rule #4, know the process! If this happen in a corporate office, you will not do anything, the HR is obliged to take address the situation, if they did not for any reason, you make sure you mention in the email, that if they did not do anything about it or ignore it, you will consider them participate in that crime by helping a criminal to get away with his crime, and believe me, in case you don't know, HR is humans, and they want to keep their job, and they have personal life to worry about, and when they feel that you actually might take an action against them, they will help you to get what you want; because they don't need troubles in their life. - FYI.. some people really afraid of HR -.

Let's stop here for a moment, I said "Criminal", I know for so many, it is a big word, but the truth is, this is what the law is describing them, they just did not know that there is consequences of their own actions. So don't feel bad about them, don't feel bad that a very cool guy or girl in our age, being called criminal for something, some people will think it is a joke, but they beauty of the law is that the law don't joke with us.

In a corporate world, life is easy, but you have to be diplomatic. Meaning of this, when you have meeting , and most likely they will set up a meeting between you and the person you are complaining about, prepare your documents, print out the points he has violated - you are now your own lawyer - Also i am assuming that there were witnesses already.

Tell the HR, and the manager, in front of the person you have an issue with, that you will not take any action in regards of your civil rights - Meaning: you are taking this person to court, and that you trust HR they will take a proper action to address this issue - and you are giving this guy a chance, and the Philippines law is giving you up to 5 years to file this case against him, so if every in the upcoming 5 years this person commit anything, you will no longer going to HR and you will proceed with your civil rights.

This is a game changer, 5 years, you will only get all respect from this person, maybe he will realize his fault, maybe not, but it does not matter because the outcome of this, you know your rights and you know what you can do with it. You can not force everyone to like you, but you can force them to respect you.

On other hand, if things went out of control, and you have to take this to next level, you must read the process and how to file a case.

In the Philippines, you don't just go to the court or the police station. There is something smaller than police station, called barangay, you go to the barangay in the area that had the incident, and from there, you right what happened, you attach the evidence, could be pictures, recordings, names of witnesses, and if it legit, they will give you a paper to go to police station - If it is not legit, they are not giving the paper you need to go to police station - From there they will tell you what to do.

After all, the point behind this article not to cause troubles to anyone, however, you need to know your right, therefore putting limits for some particular people who have always find it funny to invade your privacy, disrespecting you, or hurting your dignity, only because they have some issues in their personality, not to mention feeling better about themselves.

I hope you find this article useful. I tried to make it seamless; because some people think that you need a law degree to know your rights. I have a law degree myself but I could not say that I have practiced it, but I am sharing with you my personal experience and the little bit knowledge that I have, that actually helped me and helped my beloved ones.

In the end, I had to highlight few points, and I encourage everyone to read and expand their knowledge. Also you can always seek the help of a good and affordable lawyer in your country, but I suggest that you read more on your case before you go to an attorney.



This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting. Know your rights and always be prepared, Pinoy!

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Hate traffic? Running late for a meeting? (Ride with Angkas)

They say beat the traffic.

This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and in this topic we are beating the traffic with Angkas application.

I don't care what you wear going to work, tuxedo, casual, smart casual, classic, even shorts, it doesn't matter; because you have to try this beast!

Hands down, best service I have ever experience for 4 years since I arrived in the Philippines.
To be honest, I just want to know where was this service 4 years ago.

Coverage Area: Makati and BGC. Well, they go other places too, but they need to take different routes since they are not with good terms with some parts of the Philippines, like "Mandaluyong". Somebody didn't get paid? Maybe?

According to their application, base fare: 50 Pesos for 1st 2 M, then they charge you per KM 10 Pesos. - Not bad at all.

Continuing: Fares may go up when demand is high. - Okay fair enough, they need to earn money and pay their drivers.

The question remain:


  • Is the services available all the time? Answer: You have 90 percent chance you will have a driver.
  • Is Angkas safe? Yes it is very safe
  • Are the drivers professional? Well, I would rate them 4 out 5


Let's be honest, we are humans, and we are away from being perfect, perfection is only for God, but I had some issues with few drivers. It could be the language barrier, I am not sure, but I believe it is just miscommunication, specially when they text you in Tagalog, and I have to guess what do they mean, but I have learnt myself so far that "Dito n po/poh" means, they have arrived at the pick up location.

Some of them they already know me already from previous trips, so they text in English, impressive!

It is on-demand motorcycle taxi service and it is from my humble opinion, very convenient.

Here are the list of the questions that 99 percent of the drivers ask me:


  1. First time with Angkas, sir?
  2. Where are you from sir?
  3. How long you have been living here, sir?
  4. Do you speak Tagalog sir?
  5. Do you take Angkas everyday, sir?
  6. Do you work here sir?
  7. Do you love Angkas. sir?
Ride On!

I have no complaints about the questions, I get it, I am a foreigner, and I look foreigner; but sometimes I just finish my work and I just don't want to have a conversation on my way home, but again the majority of them are really nice and always having a smile on their face, just what I need after a tough day.

Oh, one more thing! They never ask for more money, they stick to the fare on the application.

Only one of them, he was old guy, and he was working on a regular taxi before, he mentioned, he hates it when there is a promo code; because he prefer to get money on the spot for his family, instead of waiting for the pay day.


Almost forgetting! You see, every once in a while they do something really nice. They text you a code, a promo code, you can use, a discount on the original fare, from 10 pesos up to 50 pesos (20, 30, 40), and so on.

Usually in the weekend, or for the people who has night shift after 12:00 AM. Also they have different set of codes with different discounts, but the one I shared with you are the most common.

Already, that was my experience with Angkas, make sure to download that bad boy on your phone from Apple Store, or if you have Andriod, check Google Play store, and look for "Angkas".


This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting. Beat The Traffic, Sir!

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Quit your job! What?!!

Quit your job, yeah you heard me!

This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and in this topic I am urging you to quit your job.

"If you don't achieve your dream, someone else will hire you to achieve theirs."

I know talking is easy, but taking an action is totally way different thing. If it was easy, everyone would go for it.

So what I am asking you to do is, break the chain of the corporate world while you're still young, be the change, be the person that you want to be; because one day, your child will be proud of you.

I will help you to be that change, and I promise you I will share every piece of information I have that actually helped to be the change that I want.

I am not selling you anything. I just know that life is tough, but I was able to come up with a format that might actually work for you, the key of success , the Alpha life style hack that will change your life.

Stay away from anyone does not appreciate you, giving you negative energy, or does not respect you.
Work out, make lots of squats, drink coffee before you workout - (Replacement for pre-workout supplements) -, and eat well, not much, but just enough for your muscles, 2 meals a day is enough.

Don't drink Coke, drink water, a lot of water, and if you are smoker, your body automatically will refuse it little by little, you don't need a program to quit, it will happen automatically.

There is a lot of vitamins you can buy to help in the workout process, as long you are eating, the vitamins will do amazing job. I can share with you the vitamins that helped me personally, i lost weight and i gained weight, so I have a really good idea about these products and how to use them.

Read, focus on how the world started and how it will end, have a copy of King James bible, and Quran, I prefer English language myself. Personally I prefer to start reading on the Abrahamic religions, which are three, Judaism, Christianity, and Islam.

For the Quran, it works a bit different than the bible; since there is no such and English version of it, but there is English translation, there is different between a translation copy and version copy.

Then educate yourself about Hinduism books and Atheist books and any big religion in world wide.

This will open for you very interesting topic and will attract a very interesting people.

Try to avoid alcohol, it is not good for the work out process, go to clubs only for dancing and listening to music.

Learn a new language, Hebrew, Arabic, Farsi, Turkish, Japanese, in case your dream is big and will cost you money, these languages are actually high paid salaries, you will have enough to enjoy your life and to save money in the same time, so you can make your dream come true.

If you followed this, you are feeding your body and your soul, and you will find that losers started to get away from your way; you will find that you are too good for them, and they will realize that they are not as much cool as you, and they might stop you though from what you're doing, if you had struggles with this, try to disappear for a while from their sight, until you accomplish what you want

You will end up knowing the right people, perhaps the right man, or the right woman. It only takes two people to create a great family, and that is different level of happiness.


Now your mind is clear, all your problems seem small, and you are big.

Then, you will know what you want in life, you brain is ready to receive all the positive things.

This is not magic, I thought it was, and i quite the process so many times and I actually doubted it.

Then I figured, I got nothing to lose, and I was patient, you will start to notice the changes less than 3 month, and to maximize the results, you will need to continue, respect the process, and always remember, you did not come from nothing, you are one of billion creations of God, and he would not want to see you lost, because everyone has a specific skill, a purpose, and it is your job to look for it, and you will never find it by getting drunk and hang out with losers.

By this, you will realize what is the proper job for you, you will break the chain of routine.
You will see how great you can be, you will maximize the job that you have to save enough to do your thing, it could be a small food cart that will led to a restaurant, it could be a personal training that will led to opening a GYM, maybe a public speaker, maybe a famous Youtuber with good pay, maybe a blogger just like me, to share your experience to the world, maybe a teacher to teach the next generations, or a freelancer or translator, unless you want to take major like a doctor, engineer, a plice officer.

When you are building your character and investing in yourself, you choose what you want to do for the rest of your life.


This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting. Invest in yourself!

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Single Moms....From my perspective!

Single Moms! A sensitive topic.

This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and we are taking this topic to the next level. It is time to speak the truth.

When I say a single mom, I do not mean widowed, I do not mean divorcee, but I mean a single mom.

Lets's go back in time, you know, high school maybe, teenager life why not, okay good, stop right there!

So, what we got here! An innocent girl who is in love with a boy, not yet a guy, they are both kids, no parents supervision, with the media and internet nowadays, there are no limits, pop music, rock, RN'B, rap, hip hop, you name it, everyone trying to blindly imitate the super stars, everyone want to be a STAR.

The lyrics touch the soul and abuse it to the limit, with the absence of supervision, you get a lost generation who refuse to live and accept reality and choose fantasy over reality, and who does not?

When you are too young to take a decision, when you are in a dilemma between following your mind or your heart, don't we all have been there?

So here is one out of hundreds scenarios that the society is ignoring...

The girl who fell in love with a guy in school, she has a crush on him, both are living in their own bubble, she wants to prove her love to him, on the other hand, he is waiting for a prove from her end, living the moment, exploring each other, no limits, no boundaries, no parents, no nothing.

She wants to feel sexy and wanted, too early for this? Well, she has different opinion, actually both of them has different opinion, but they don't understand the consequences of their own actions. Too young? Again they both have different opinion, free world, freedom, new world order, be what you want to be.

Temporary happiness that ruins a woman's life forever; because she gets pregnant without a marriage.

The Kid, gets panic, OMG! I am a father? Now he realize he is too young to be a father, he finds his way to break up with her.

What are her choices, she is having a baby on the way, i am not going to talk about how she will deliver the news to her family, it is indeed a tough process, specially if she came from poor family.

She drop her school, looking for cheap job, because she is not even a graduate, wants to prove to her family and her society that she is adult and she can take of herself.

Girl, you are very young and beautiful, you don't have to go through this, you are valued, your body is sacred, why you need to do this to yourself? Because the truth is, you don't need to prove anything to anyone.

Wait for the right time, the one who have created you and brought you to this world will never forget about you, you are not suppose to suffer, you are suppose to life your age, and graduate, and chase your career, and make your dreams come true.

The time and energy you will waste on the wrong relationship, you can use it to invest in your self, work out, no need to go to GYM, not everyone can afford it, workout at home, be sexy for your future husband, marriage is beautiful and worth waiting for. But be careful, you don't need to be with a guy who appreciate how sexy you are, big mistake, you want a guy who appreciate your mind, your character, no one is perfect, and your mind matter.

The media is telling you, in order for you to be a lady, you have to show more the society, don't fall for this girl, you are not an object, you are not an item, you are a beautiful creature that God brought to the world, to teach and educate generations after generations, bring leaders that the world needs, you are meant to be a leader not follower, you are matter.

Teenage is not an easy stage, but if you work on your self steam and confidence with working out and eating healthy food, you will find your self in way different bubble, you will be in control of your life, not some douche will control you.

I have seen and experience so many things in life, I have talked with so many people, you can trust me on this when I say it, live your own age, work out, eat healthy, and the time will fly and you will be amazed with how this effected your life.

But I have to say, there is always good men out there who is taking care of their women. Also there is bad women who chose to do wrongs. There is good parents as well who knows how to take care of their children, there is too many good examples out there in every society.

The purpose behind this post is to offer help as much as we can, for those who are seeking the help.


This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting. Too young to suffer!
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Tagalog... Question: Do you speak Tagalog, sir? ... Answer: Nope! Do you?

Tagalog! It is interesting language, or it was interesting language.

This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and in this topic we are talking about Tagalog.

Here is the thing....

It has been 4 years for me in the Philippines, I was amazed with how developed this country is. I am married to a fabulous intelligent Filipina that i really love so so much.

She speaks 3 languages, perfect English and Spanish, no accent, and fair classical Arabic, in addition to her Tagalog which is her mother tongue.

Traffic is awful here in Manila, and I never considered buying a car for commuting, so I take Angkas, Grab Car, or Uber. going to work, back and forth, it is easy to commute that way and very convenient, we live in Makati.

Every single ride, I get this question from drivers, Do you speak Tagalog, sir? Actually i have a list of questions that i have been asked, usually these questions are the same, which is funny, unless the driver wanted to be a bit creative, but this is not the case here.

I totally understand that it is a shame on me after all those years, yet I don't speak Tagalog; but i will tell you why!

I did a research on this, I realized that even Pinoys themselves don't speak Tagalog, so they are giving me a headache, not fair!!

I believe the last time someone actually spoke the language, maybe before 12 century if I am not mistaken, basically before the Spaniard invaded the Philippines.

As far as i know, Tagalog nowadays or Taglish; because they are mixing English with Tagalog that actually a combination of English and Spanish words and a lot of Arabic words. I can give you a list of words that you will be amazed to know that they are actually Arabic origin.

So next time someone will ask me that question - Do you speak Tagalog, sir? - All response will be, Do you?

That's funny!

Even when I go out to the mall, you see families walking with their kids and they are talking to them in English. Okay i got it, you are making a statement, we are fancy family. This goes to upper, middle, lower class, and I just don't get it.


People, please teach your kids your own language, there is nothing good at all in ignoring your own language, for your kids sake. You are raising a generation that will end up finding themselves struggling to relate to their own culture. This is a wake up call, and you will regret it if you don't take an action now.

Loyalty, Pertinence and belonging to Homeland. This is what you want to teach your kids, not English.

Because guess what?! You are not.


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Marriage Dilemma (Her feelings matter) / The End [Part 4 of 4]

Marriage, Oh Boy!

You know! Any normal man would love to live happy and exciting marriage, not only women, but we always find a short cut to screw it up.

This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and in this topic we are going to continue what we have discussed in previous post.

Everything is fine and everything looks good, until this happens.

Out of nowhere, another woman shows up in the picture, you think she is attractive, the way she is talking, she speaks your language, and you feel homesickness and finally found someone to talk to, but this is your side of the story and this could be your intention - in the beginning -, but she has different plans for you.

Your wife started to feel that you have changed. The truth is she already knows.
She has always been worried about this moment. She is aware she is not that super sexy anymore.

She is giving you hard time now, she has no proof, She is giving you a hard time now, she has no proof, but sooner or later she will. Her sixth sense is sending her brain a signal, the signal says, "Hey! There is another woman".

This is no longer about feeling insecure about not being in shape, or for gaining weight! Oh no, this is about another woman trying to take her man away from her.

What you don't know as a man, you have just broken, humiliated, and destroyed her self steam, her self confidence, what a shame.

This beautiful creation of God, that God has gifted you, this woman you have chosen, and you are doing this to her?

I am not saying all women are good at all, but also not all men are good either.

So now, your woman try to protect her family, try to protect her marriage and keep her husband.

So she take a decision and step down from her throne. She decides to humiliate her self, and give up her pride for the sake of protecting her family.

She goes to the place where her husband works, just to face the other woman who is trying to take her husband from her.

And she gets the opportunity to face her, but also she gets one of those responses that leave marks and hurts more than getting stabbed with a knife. - Your Man is the one who came to me -.

Listen! Why would you do that to your wife? Why you told her those sweet words when you first met her, why you decided to marry her, why you gave her hope then took it away from her, you have no right to do this to a woman.

Everyone in the office know the story, your actions speak louder than words, your actions say, my wife is a piece of trash, my wife is useless, my wife is not important, she is nothing, she is a joke, so every time people will see her in the mall, or a grocery shop, first thing will cross their mind, is what your actions say about her.

Are you happy now?
Look what you have done! Yet, she has not leave you yet, she is still hoping that love will come around once again and you will love her again.

Can't you see?
You have lost your way my friend.

I am done here. I said what I had to say and I said what I have felt.

I hope you felt something too.



That woman who is trying to steal you, she don't give a damn about your life, and the moment she walked in your life, knowing that you are married man, she will leave for someone better than you.

Because for her, she has no morals, no ethics, how could you trust her, how could you ignore what she is doing? The time you waste on her is too long that you should have spent it fix your own marriage, this is a poison in a honey, you see her attractive, the way she approach you, the way she is close to you, she is not playing, she knows exactly what she does to you, in fact she is too smart that you will think she is natural, she is too smart that will make you think she is not trying with you, but she is, absolutely is.

You think everything is easy with her. Of course, she is not your wife, her make up is always on, dressed up and looking good. Yes I know, but your wife was like this once, and she can be the most sexist woman on earth if you gave her the chance, if you left her up, if you take care of her heart, if you left her self-steam up, her confidence. Don't be selfish and be a human, be fair, become what a man supposed to be.

Story has not ended yet. It is your move now!


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Marriage Dilemma - The Story Continues! [Part 3 of 4]

Marriage Dilemma! Before we proceed with our story, I just want to grab your attention to something very important. I was really surprised if not shocked that men always ignoring it!

This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and in this topic we are getting closer to some facts and we - Men - are ignoring.- In the light of our previous post.

When you decide to get marry, our women are not the same as when we were dating them.

Meaning, she was super fit, at one point when you were dating, she looks stunning, always pretty, make up is perfect, no responsibilities on the man except that the gentleman will pay the bill of the restaurant on that day. and that is it.

After marriage, things change, not because she does not want to, but because she does not have the time to do all of that; because you live together now, she can not be perfect!

Specially, if she gave birth to a baby, she gain weight, she eats more, and most likely you can kiss the "super fit" goodbye.

It is not her fault, this is how women body works. Forget about those women on Instagram, this is not real, this is photo editing, light system, Photoshop, even if those are real women, let me tell you my friend, those are models and they are doing this for living, they are getting paid to look like this, if they don't look like this, they will lose there jobs. Same goes to actresses and singers. This is the media working with all what they got to destroy your small family.

Instead of you saying nice words to your woman and help them with their self steam, you are destroying any potential they might have to change.

You think they don't know? You think they are happy with their body changes? Believe they are not, and you are not helping them to be better, you don't show your understanding, and you blame them for not taking care of themselves.

Instead, you start to look for someone else, someone perfect, someone with nice body, just like the time when you met your lovely wife.

Are we stupid? or we're just ignoring these facts?



Gentlemen! The sexy girl you are going out with instead of your wife, she does not have a life, and even the fact she is going out and dating a married man is enough clue that she has no morals for accepting dating you.

That Girl!

She was not there when you worked hard and saved money to buy this apartment/house/car, on the contrary, your wife did, and she was patient with you and supported you emotionally if not financially,  and she gave you everything she can, just to see you happy.

The other girl, she is seeing a handsome guy with a car and stable job, a guy can afford her dinner and to show off in front of her friends and to satisfy even her needs, and of course the guy is so dump; because he is seeing her perfect, always dressed up with full make up, and he forgets the fact that his wife even more beautiful than her, but stupidity is stronger than facts.

Now your wife feels insecure, and you are the one and only reason behind that, congratulations! you just broke your wife.

You think that it is easy and your wife is just jealous and giving you hard time? Seriously!

Let me tell you, this is not jealousy, this is not even close to that. This you destroying, demolishing, breaking, knocking down, and killing the heart of the woman you have loved once and the woman how has accepted to be your wife, the mother of your baby, even if God did not grant you a baby yet, still i would not change a thing from what i said. Be careful, this is a woman heart you are dealing with.

 So if you think that it is "jealousy", PLEASE THINK AGAIN!

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Is it really a dilemma?!! #Marriage [Part 2 of 4]

Marriage! Is it really a dilemma?

This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and in this topic we are going to continue what we have discussed in previous post.

Here is a story, I am afraid that it is actually a real one and it is one of the cases I have observed, and hopefully it will have a happy ending.

With faith and logic, anything is possible, and maybe the love will come around.

I am not exaggerating!

You travel abroad for a vacation, not worrying about a thing, you are young, you got cash, not too much, but just enough for your fantastic vacation.

Your destination is the Philippines Islands. Everyone knows how beautiful that place is, too many islands and too may places to go.

You meet the girl of your dreams, and this is so beautiful, when you are not planning to fall in love.

Anyway, couple of dinners and couple of drinks, you like the attitude, she is smart, knowledgeable, and you have enough time to just know it, I want to marry this girl.

Let's stop here for a moment, so you left your country, not a single señorita grabbed your attention, and you go way far to a country that don' speak your language, and the only language you are using to communicate is English, and you were impressed by this woman you have met, the woman of your dreams, and she is 10 baby.

When you decide to get marry and settle down with a stable job, it is a one way road, not because divorce is bad or hard, but because you know you have felt something, you felt different, something happen inside of you, that makes you want to take this relationship to next level, and you should; because you can't just ignore this feeling that easy.



This is not a scene from a movie, or chapter from a novel either, this feeling is real, and your job is to make sure, that this feeling will continue growing and protect it.

People change, and this is understood, but there is a reason behind that change. Break up, not necessarily is the solution when people change. However, when there is a change, it is indeed a sign for you to realize that "Something is wrong need to be fixed", and not that"Something is wrong, it is time to runaway". I am just saying it happens and I have seen a lot of break ups in front of me and relationships ended, even though they had a chance to work there relationships out, but instead they took the easy.

The good news is, so far, for this story I am sharing with you, no one has changed, yet!

This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting. Stay Tuned for next!
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Marriage.. What a dilemma?!! [Part 1 of 4]

This blog is on relationships. To be more precise, it's about marriage.

Marriage is beautiful! And don't believe anyone who tells you that it's not. Yes marriage is beautiful - by default - Yet it is hard to understand, or you can say that it's "NOT EASY" for everyone to get the hint of it. What was possible yesterday with old peeps, it may not work for us today, life was easier before, in a way that by time, marriage became more complicated, and so is everything beautiful, it is always complicated. Can you describe how you feel when you eat chocolate? It is complicated. Exactly! Other than this, having a stable marriage now, especially these days, it is something, it really is.

You don't see it beautiful; because of many reasons. Maybe the information that was exposed to you are actually came from wrong resources, like movies, books, or even a blog just like this one. Maybe you are getting your information from people don't have the privilege to discuss this topic with you, or they are losers by all means and have no rights to tell you what to do.

I will leave the judge to you.

In the light of this topic, allow me to talk to men, because believe it or not, the key is in our hand - Men - and not the women. I am not saying that women cannot have the key per se, But I believe that we - men - should do the hard work in the relationship. And I know for a fact that since life started, we have always blamed women for pretty much everything, since "The Apple", which is, decades, I mean come on, will you stop it already!


So let me be a little bit in your faith and tell you, that it is all in our hands - Men - But we have always chosen the easy way out. We have wasted too many chances and opportunities to fix all the problems we have in our relationships, that can led us eventually to eternal happiness, by understanding what marriage is all about, do not hate what you don't understand. But we are so dumb that we give it all away and continue complaining about everything and blame her instead.

Nothing more easier than running away! If you are that type person, then maybe marriage and relationship is not for you. I mean you have to be clear from the beginning, instead of hurting people's feelings. I mean Man up dude!

Not all the men necessarily is doing the same thing, I mean, through the history of men, we have always known great men, responsible men, and there is still among us so many men who are actually doing a great job, no doubts. I am just putting the light on some behaviors that need to have an end.

This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting. Stay Tuned for more on this topic!



Other topics:


Is it really a dilemma?!! #Marriage [Part 2 of 4]

Marriage Dilemma - The Story Continues! [Part 3 of 4]

Marriage Dilemma (Her feelings matter) / The End [Part 4 of 4]


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