You Deserve Better! A Message to Women.

Women! This post is a message to all women around the world; but let's say that the women in the Philippines specifically pulled the trigger!

Hi, this is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and in this topic we will try to put a message out there and hopefully, and I mean hopefully, people will start to change the way they are looking to women.

So where should I start....

Alright! Bear with me please. We have to put some basis here. I ain't no expert but something is wrong here, something is really wrong in the world.

It is 2017, so I am assuming we all know that the woman is the one who control the future of any nation. All the generations who have seen the sun, were delivered by a woman. Everyone knows it, yet everyone ignores it, everyone ignores how valued and how important the woman's role is.

But whose fault is that?

That little girl been taught, she is an object, she is an item, everyone has the right to own her, abuse her. She has to work hard, she has to feed the family, she has to travel to work abroad and send money to the family. Utang na loob, diba?

Not to mention, the society that expecting from her, even since high school, that every boyfriend she will have, will have the right to explore her body, and no matter how many boyfriend she will have, they will commit the same crime, and the society will tell her, it is normal, it is healthy, and it is a part of growing up, in fact they will call her weird and nerd if she did not comply.

How sick that is?

This is one scenario out of million others for discriminating women since childhood. Eventually in so many scenarios she will get pregnant and will be a mother in a very young age, who will be abandoned by her own family or boyfriend, and they will call her names, very bad names. She will have to drop school or college to pay for the mistakes that the society committed against her, with feeding her mind with this sickness, by telling her what to wear, telling her be sexy instead of telling her to be beautiful, telling her being a lady by showing more of her body, instead of telling her that she is matter, and her mind is valued, letting her to be an object for any animal in the street to check her body, instead of teaching her that her body is sacred. Aside of that, all love songs that the young generations keep repeating that has sexual messages.

For the parents, why don't they educate there boys to respect girls and always keeping an eye on them and do their job when it comes to supervision, on the other hand, why don't they educate their girls, how valued they are, and that their body is holy.

Why blaming the woman, when the man did not do his job and betrayed the secretariat and the trust, instead, he is setting in the backyard drinking beer with the boys, a gangster, happy with his muscles, showing off in front of the boys and don't do anything in his life, as if he is doing a favor to his woman by keeping her.

The damage has been done!

Is there a hope?

There is always a hope. There is always a way; but it is for those who want their children to rise and shine. Those who don't want their children to commit the same mistakes that the parent had.

However, honesty is obliged me to say, there is still good men who took the leap of faith to take care of their women. On the other hand, there is also bad women who chose the wrong path in their life. Also I cannot ignore the fact that there is good families out there, fathers and mothers, who is taking care of their boys and girls, and teaching them the rights from wrongs, and there is too many good examples in every society.

The purpose behind this post is more of a wake-up call, to offer help as much as we can, for those who are seeking the help.


This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting. On behalf of humanity, I am sorry!

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Do Not Smoke, when you take the wifey out! Say What Now?!

This post is not about quitting smoking, so chill out!

Hi, this is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and in this topic we are talking about a habit we are keep doing that actually makes us look idiots.

I am a smoker and this does not make special; because simply more than 50 Percent of the Philippines populations do, at least 48 Percent of Filipinos, in addition to other nationalities just like me who lives in the Philippines.

Here is the deal! My wife does not smoke, so the fact that I grab her hand to drop by 711 to grab a smoke and go to smoking area to smoke, I am sure it is not one of her interest.

I need to smoke, and I get it, but put in your mind that the weather in Manila is not that good and you will always need to be in a place with either clean air or at least air-conditioned.

I realized that I am actually making her suffer, but she is so nice to me that she would not talk about it.

So what we should do?

Personally, I started to leave my pack of cigarettes at home when I go out with her, or if ever the place we are going to is allowing smoking inside the air-conditioned area - then why not - There is only few places allowing that, but there food sucks. (If you know a place with good food that allowing smoking inside, I beg you to share it with me)

There is another option I don't prefer; because it will make me look more idiot, which is leaving my wife a lone, so I can grab my smoke in the smoking area - what an idiot! -. In that case she will prefer to go with me, even though she does not like it, but for her it is better than sitting alone - Exactly! I am double idiot! - .

What I am trying to say is, don't get fooled by yourself and think that because you are a man, you can do whatever you want. We are supposed to take care of our women, even these little details will make a huge difference in your relationship.

Imagine, when your wife is already got used to that you smoke, and actually she will ask you to smoke, and your responds to her will be: " I'd rather to spend the time talking with you than wasting it in a smoking area". Man, she will love you!

But I again, if you find an air-conditioned spot that you can smoke at, then forget about what I said to you and just grab a smoke man.


This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting. Smoke Smart!

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What is your mother tongue? Are you a native speaker?

Mother tongue! What's that?

Hi, this is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and in this topic we will talk about "What is your mother tongue?", and I mean your mother tongue and my mother tongue.

There is a big debate about this, and people are asking, what is exactly considered a "Mother Tongue"?

Here is the shocking truth about what is considered a mother tongue. According to psychology: "Our mother tongue is the language we use to think, dream and feel emotion", sounds good?

So, it does not need too much efforts to have English language as your mother tongue, even if your country does not speak the language. Not only that, but also even if you have a really bad accent when you speak English, as long you are using this language to think, dream and feel emotions.

But you know what the problem is? When people pretend that they have perfect English, but the truth is, they are nothing but a pain in you head.

Stop using the word "SHOCKS". - You don't look cute by the way! Besides it is super annoying.

Anyway! It is totally fine if you have an accent if it is not your native language, there is no need to pretend, I mean we can not be all native speakers.

Am I a native English speaker? No
Does English is my mother tongue? Yes - According to Psychology

What do you need to do so your English will sound better? Okay, now we're talking!

1. Avoid the phrases that will show the defects in your accent. Meaning, do not put too much efforts in using so many words to show off, because it sounds terrible.
2. Take Phonetics course by someone native
3. Rearrange your sentence so that you will sound more clear to the person you are talking to (The person you are giving a headache basically).
4. Practice makes perfect
5. Open your mouth when you are speaking
6. Drink water
7. Work out - What is the connection? No connection! But it is good for your health though

I do not want to hear someone saying for example: "How the things are going for you?", It is too long and so damn heavy, c'mon guys! There is so many ways to say what you want like, instead try to use "Howzit goin/ How is it going" sounds nicer and smoother, in other words, make it simple.

Avoid using the word "Okay", and use "Alright" instead; because "Okay" does not sounds Okay at all, it is actually sounds more like Okkhhay, I mean, for real?

Shocks! I am kidding, Just try to simplify the sentence, and master the language.

I hope you got my point guys, and if you follow these tips, you will gain more confidence and more comfortable with the language.

Like I said, I am not a native speaker, but I was able to find my way around. You too find your way around like I did, you will see the change.

Languages is suppose to make our life easier when we communicate with other people, specially those from different background and culture, don't make it hard, make it seamless.

This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting. Boom panes talaga!

  

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