Marriage Dilemma! Before we proceed with our story, I just want to grab your attention to something very important. I was really surprised if not shocked that men always ignoring it!
This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and in this topic we are getting closer to some facts and we - Men - are ignoring.- In the light of our previous post.
When you decide to get marry, our women are not the same as when we were dating them.
Meaning, she was super fit, at one point when you were dating, she looks stunning, always pretty, make up is perfect, no responsibilities on the man except that the gentleman will pay the bill of the restaurant on that day. and that is it.
After marriage, things change, not because she does not want to, but because she does not have the time to do all of that; because you live together now, she can not be perfect!
Specially, if she gave birth to a baby, she gain weight, she eats more, and most likely you can kiss the "super fit" goodbye.
It is not her fault, this is how women body works. Forget about those women on Instagram, this is not real, this is photo editing, light system, Photoshop, even if those are real women, let me tell you my friend, those are models and they are doing this for living, they are getting paid to look like this, if they don't look like this, they will lose there jobs. Same goes to actresses and singers. This is the media working with all what they got to destroy your small family.
Instead of you saying nice words to your woman and help them with their self steam, you are destroying any potential they might have to change.
You think they don't know? You think they are happy with their body changes? Believe they are not, and you are not helping them to be better, you don't show your understanding, and you blame them for not taking care of themselves.
Instead, you start to look for someone else, someone perfect, someone with nice body, just like the time when you met your lovely wife.
Are we stupid? or we're just ignoring these facts?
Gentlemen! The sexy girl you are going out with instead of your wife, she does not have a life, and even the fact she is going out and dating a married man is enough clue that she has no morals for accepting dating you.
That Girl!
She was not there when you worked hard and saved money to buy this apartment/house/car, on the contrary, your wife did, and she was patient with you and supported you emotionally if not financially, and she gave you everything she can, just to see you happy.
The other girl, she is seeing a handsome guy with a car and stable job, a guy can afford her dinner and to show off in front of her friends and to satisfy even her needs, and of course the guy is so dump; because he is seeing her perfect, always dressed up with full make up, and he forgets the fact that his wife even more beautiful than her, but stupidity is stronger than facts.
Now your wife feels insecure, and you are the one and only reason behind that, congratulations! you just broke your wife.
You think that it is easy and your wife is just jealous and giving you hard time? Seriously!
Let me tell you, this is not jealousy, this is not even close to that. This you destroying, demolishing, breaking, knocking down, and killing the heart of the woman you have loved once and the woman how has accepted to be your wife, the mother of your baby, even if God did not grant you a baby yet, still i would not change a thing from what i said. Be careful, this is a woman heart you are dealing with.
So if you think that it is "jealousy", PLEASE THINK AGAIN!
This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and in this topic we are getting closer to some facts and we - Men - are ignoring.- In the light of our previous post.
When you decide to get marry, our women are not the same as when we were dating them.
Meaning, she was super fit, at one point when you were dating, she looks stunning, always pretty, make up is perfect, no responsibilities on the man except that the gentleman will pay the bill of the restaurant on that day. and that is it.
After marriage, things change, not because she does not want to, but because she does not have the time to do all of that; because you live together now, she can not be perfect!
Specially, if she gave birth to a baby, she gain weight, she eats more, and most likely you can kiss the "super fit" goodbye.
It is not her fault, this is how women body works. Forget about those women on Instagram, this is not real, this is photo editing, light system, Photoshop, even if those are real women, let me tell you my friend, those are models and they are doing this for living, they are getting paid to look like this, if they don't look like this, they will lose there jobs. Same goes to actresses and singers. This is the media working with all what they got to destroy your small family.
Instead of you saying nice words to your woman and help them with their self steam, you are destroying any potential they might have to change.
You think they don't know? You think they are happy with their body changes? Believe they are not, and you are not helping them to be better, you don't show your understanding, and you blame them for not taking care of themselves.
Instead, you start to look for someone else, someone perfect, someone with nice body, just like the time when you met your lovely wife.
Are we stupid? or we're just ignoring these facts?
Gentlemen! The sexy girl you are going out with instead of your wife, she does not have a life, and even the fact she is going out and dating a married man is enough clue that she has no morals for accepting dating you.
That Girl!
She was not there when you worked hard and saved money to buy this apartment/house/car, on the contrary, your wife did, and she was patient with you and supported you emotionally if not financially, and she gave you everything she can, just to see you happy.
The other girl, she is seeing a handsome guy with a car and stable job, a guy can afford her dinner and to show off in front of her friends and to satisfy even her needs, and of course the guy is so dump; because he is seeing her perfect, always dressed up with full make up, and he forgets the fact that his wife even more beautiful than her, but stupidity is stronger than facts.
Now your wife feels insecure, and you are the one and only reason behind that, congratulations! you just broke your wife.
You think that it is easy and your wife is just jealous and giving you hard time? Seriously!
Let me tell you, this is not jealousy, this is not even close to that. This you destroying, demolishing, breaking, knocking down, and killing the heart of the woman you have loved once and the woman how has accepted to be your wife, the mother of your baby, even if God did not grant you a baby yet, still i would not change a thing from what i said. Be careful, this is a woman heart you are dealing with.
So if you think that it is "jealousy", PLEASE THINK AGAIN!
This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting. See you next post!
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