Women! This post is a message to all women around the world; but let's say that the women in the Philippines specifically pulled the trigger!
Hi, this is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and in this topic we will try to put a message out there and hopefully, and I mean hopefully, people will start to change the way they are looking to women.
So where should I start....
Alright! Bear with me please. We have to put some basis here. I ain't no expert but something is wrong here, something is really wrong in the world.
It is 2017, so I am assuming we all know that the woman is the one who control the future of any nation. All the generations who have seen the sun, were delivered by a woman. Everyone knows it, yet everyone ignores it, everyone ignores how valued and how important the woman's role is.
But whose fault is that?
That little girl been taught, she is an object, she is an item, everyone has the right to own her, abuse her. She has to work hard, she has to feed the family, she has to travel to work abroad and send money to the family. Utang na loob, diba?
Not to mention, the society that expecting from her, even since high school, that every boyfriend she will have, will have the right to explore her body, and no matter how many boyfriend she will have, they will commit the same crime, and the society will tell her, it is normal, it is healthy, and it is a part of growing up, in fact they will call her weird and nerd if she did not comply.
How sick that is?
This is one scenario out of million others for discriminating women since childhood. Eventually in so many scenarios she will get pregnant and will be a mother in a very young age, who will be abandoned by her own family or boyfriend, and they will call her names, very bad names. She will have to drop school or college to pay for the mistakes that the society committed against her, with feeding her mind with this sickness, by telling her what to wear, telling her be sexy instead of telling her to be beautiful, telling her being a lady by showing more of her body, instead of telling her that she is matter, and her mind is valued, letting her to be an object for any animal in the street to check her body, instead of teaching her that her body is sacred. Aside of that, all love songs that the young generations keep repeating that has sexual messages.
For the parents, why don't they educate there boys to respect girls and always keeping an eye on them and do their job when it comes to supervision, on the other hand, why don't they educate their girls, how valued they are, and that their body is holy.
Why blaming the woman, when the man did not do his job and betrayed the secretariat and the trust, instead, he is setting in the backyard drinking beer with the boys, a gangster, happy with his muscles, showing off in front of the boys and don't do anything in his life, as if he is doing a favor to his woman by keeping her.
The damage has been done!
Is there a hope?
There is always a hope. There is always a way; but it is for those who want their children to rise and shine. Those who don't want their children to commit the same mistakes that the parent had.
However, honesty is obliged me to say, there is still good men who took the leap of faith to take care of their women. On the other hand, there is also bad women who chose the wrong path in their life. Also I cannot ignore the fact that there is good families out there, fathers and mothers, who is taking care of their boys and girls, and teaching them the rights from wrongs, and there is too many good examples in every society.
The purpose behind this post is more of a wake-up call, to offer help as much as we can, for those who are seeking the help.
This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting. On behalf of humanity, I am sorry!
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Hi, this is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and in this topic we will try to put a message out there and hopefully, and I mean hopefully, people will start to change the way they are looking to women.
So where should I start....
It is 2017, so I am assuming we all know that the woman is the one who control the future of any nation. All the generations who have seen the sun, were delivered by a woman. Everyone knows it, yet everyone ignores it, everyone ignores how valued and how important the woman's role is.
But whose fault is that?
That little girl been taught, she is an object, she is an item, everyone has the right to own her, abuse her. She has to work hard, she has to feed the family, she has to travel to work abroad and send money to the family. Utang na loob, diba?
Not to mention, the society that expecting from her, even since high school, that every boyfriend she will have, will have the right to explore her body, and no matter how many boyfriend she will have, they will commit the same crime, and the society will tell her, it is normal, it is healthy, and it is a part of growing up, in fact they will call her weird and nerd if she did not comply.
How sick that is?
This is one scenario out of million others for discriminating women since childhood. Eventually in so many scenarios she will get pregnant and will be a mother in a very young age, who will be abandoned by her own family or boyfriend, and they will call her names, very bad names. She will have to drop school or college to pay for the mistakes that the society committed against her, with feeding her mind with this sickness, by telling her what to wear, telling her be sexy instead of telling her to be beautiful, telling her being a lady by showing more of her body, instead of telling her that she is matter, and her mind is valued, letting her to be an object for any animal in the street to check her body, instead of teaching her that her body is sacred. Aside of that, all love songs that the young generations keep repeating that has sexual messages.
For the parents, why don't they educate there boys to respect girls and always keeping an eye on them and do their job when it comes to supervision, on the other hand, why don't they educate their girls, how valued they are, and that their body is holy.
Why blaming the woman, when the man did not do his job and betrayed the secretariat and the trust, instead, he is setting in the backyard drinking beer with the boys, a gangster, happy with his muscles, showing off in front of the boys and don't do anything in his life, as if he is doing a favor to his woman by keeping her.
The damage has been done!
Is there a hope?
There is always a hope. There is always a way; but it is for those who want their children to rise and shine. Those who don't want their children to commit the same mistakes that the parent had.
However, honesty is obliged me to say, there is still good men who took the leap of faith to take care of their women. On the other hand, there is also bad women who chose the wrong path in their life. Also I cannot ignore the fact that there is good families out there, fathers and mothers, who is taking care of their boys and girls, and teaching them the rights from wrongs, and there is too many good examples in every society.
The purpose behind this post is more of a wake-up call, to offer help as much as we can, for those who are seeking the help.
This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting. On behalf of humanity, I am sorry!
If you like this post please LIKE and SHARE
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