Growing Up is a Personal Decision (The Choice)

Growing up is a choice! Some people decide not to take it, no matter how old they are, and they have their reasons. But some people know for a fact, to them, that it is a must decision no matter how young they are.

Hi, this is Alpha, and before I start  talking, if you are the head of your family, then this post is for you. Let me be completely honest with you. No one is perfect, we are humans, and are supposed to do mistakes, we are not angels. However we are supposed to control ourselves; because if we failed to do so, things will be a real mess up. Now, who wants to have mess up life anyway, I know I don't, and neither do you. believe me.

So here is the thing, I believe growing up is something that people have to comply with in certain point. There is no specific time or age for making up your mind for this step, however sometimes it might actually cost you a lot, if the decision was too late, as it's too late.

What you should do about it?

Set priorities in your life, and put in your mind that you Can Not have it all. Sacrifices must take place sooner or later; because you might lose it all my friend.

Some people in your life must go, they can not stick with you forever. They might be there for you when you need them for sure, but they can not stick around. Why? As I said, you can not have it all.

Sometimes, the only way to show people how we love them, is by giving them a bit of privacy, if we really care for them. Understanding this is hard sometimes, not only that, sometimes we want to stick with some people we know in our life, without noticing that we are hurting someone else.

When you start to set up priorities in your life, and moving on with your life with the ones who are important to you the most, then, and only then, you will figure out that, this is actually a part of growing up.

It is a big process indeed, and I am a part of it, and I am still growing up, I am still setting up priorities. Every phase in my life I change these priorities, depends on what is best for my family.

When things getting hard and confusing, I choose my family; because eventually, this is what matter, and anything else has to comply. It will be a big lie if I though that someone else will care about me more than my family.

Lifting your family up is your responsibility, and it also defines who you are. Don't get distracted with mixed emotions and start to be aware, before it is too late.

I have seen homes and families being destroyed; because the word "I", I want, I don't think, I don't care. Sometimes it is not bad at all to use "I", but not in all cases. Sometimes the word "We" is the right choice, specially when are addressing how our family feels about us.

For example and not limited, changing habits, of going our with your male/female friends every night, or playing games for hours without even sharing the fun with your family, or spending too much time on social media. Sharing your feelings about your family and family secrets with your friends, and leaving them literally naked in front of everyone's eyes to see their defects, this is not fair, and not only that, you are making them ugly in people eyes.

Some people are really sick and want to make sure you are not leaving them, even if the price for this is your family. They will always play the victim to you, and you will always feel weak in front of them, and you will buy it every single time my friend, and before you know it, your family is long time gone. Don't take your family for granted; they have feelings and they will react upon it, sooner or later.

I have seen families have been destroyed because of this, yet the man has now idea what went wrong.

So let me leave you with this. The more you create a gap between you and your family, the chance is big of losing them. And not seeing what went wrong is even worse than doing it.



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Would you let your Daughter/Son do same mistakes you did? [About Regret]

Regret! This post is a about your expectation from your kids whether or not you want them to follow your steps. A message to parents, and what kind of society you want you children to be a part of?

Hi, this is Alpha again, I am back from my vacation in Cebu, wonderful place, we shall talk about it later in another topic.

In this topic we want to be honest with each other. Not for me, but for you!

So this week I was scrolling down in my Instagram, and I saw one of my friends has posted a new picture, I respect this person a lot and we worked together in the past, she has a very good personality, not only that, she is actually one of those employees that you want to keep, for their honesty and their attitude, specially when they are dealing with customers.

Here is the thing, my friend is a single mother. I know it is not easy by any chance to be a working single mother. It is just complicated just by saying it. Yet the society and your employer wants to see your beautiful smile on your face, all the time, no matter how much trouble you are going through and no matter how difficult your life is.

And I have been thinking, what kind of society you want your kid to live in? Would you let your daughter go through same struggles that you are going through? or you will teach your daughter different things about relationships. Are you going to tell her don't trust men, or you will tell her there is good men out there? will you tell her I wish you have better life and stable marriage, or you will tell her follow my steps blindly?

On the other hand, the father who run away, would you like your son to follow your steps, being not man enough? hurting women, and leave them to face life a lone in early age and take everything away from them? will you tell him, take from women the right to get graduate and to get a decent job; because they will be busy raising their baby, or you will tell him, don't be like me, and you will tell him to respect women? Will you tell him to be man is by touching as much woman as he can? Or you will teach him no to touch anyone before they marry them? Will you tell him to run away once a women is pregnant? Or you will tell him to be a man and be responsible for his actions?

So basically, my question is, would you like your daughter and your son to live in a society that has trust issues?

We have to understand that, Women not suppose to suffer and face the world alone, and Men not suppose to be irresponsible to their families.

I don't want you to answer me, I want you to answer yourself this question. Look at your kids, you will see in their eyes a great future waiting for them, waiting for you, to give them a proper education, teaching them to be better and to have better luck than you. We both know that our children can do better, and we need to admit it in ourselves.

Same goes for the cheater, would you like your daughter or your son to do same mistakes you have been doing? or you will try so hard to not make them be different person than who you are? Because sometimes I feel - And I know I am wrong - that  some parents don't deserve to the blessings of having kids, but if God decided for them to have them, then indeed there is a wisdom behind this, a wisdom that is bigger than my understanding.

Coldplay said it, "nobody said it was easy", and I agree!

Now is it is your move, and I hope that your children will have better life, and they will have a stable relationships when they grow up; because there is nothing to prove here. It is indeed there time now



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You Deserve Better! A Message to Women.

Women! This post is a message to all women around the world; but let's say that the women in the Philippines specifically pulled the trigger!

Hi, this is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and in this topic we will try to put a message out there and hopefully, and I mean hopefully, people will start to change the way they are looking to women.

So where should I start....

Alright! Bear with me please. We have to put some basis here. I ain't no expert but something is wrong here, something is really wrong in the world.

It is 2017, so I am assuming we all know that the woman is the one who control the future of any nation. All the generations who have seen the sun, were delivered by a woman. Everyone knows it, yet everyone ignores it, everyone ignores how valued and how important the woman's role is.

But whose fault is that?

That little girl been taught, she is an object, she is an item, everyone has the right to own her, abuse her. She has to work hard, she has to feed the family, she has to travel to work abroad and send money to the family. Utang na loob, diba?

Not to mention, the society that expecting from her, even since high school, that every boyfriend she will have, will have the right to explore her body, and no matter how many boyfriend she will have, they will commit the same crime, and the society will tell her, it is normal, it is healthy, and it is a part of growing up, in fact they will call her weird and nerd if she did not comply.

How sick that is?

This is one scenario out of million others for discriminating women since childhood. Eventually in so many scenarios she will get pregnant and will be a mother in a very young age, who will be abandoned by her own family or boyfriend, and they will call her names, very bad names. She will have to drop school or college to pay for the mistakes that the society committed against her, with feeding her mind with this sickness, by telling her what to wear, telling her be sexy instead of telling her to be beautiful, telling her being a lady by showing more of her body, instead of telling her that she is matter, and her mind is valued, letting her to be an object for any animal in the street to check her body, instead of teaching her that her body is sacred. Aside of that, all love songs that the young generations keep repeating that has sexual messages.

For the parents, why don't they educate there boys to respect girls and always keeping an eye on them and do their job when it comes to supervision, on the other hand, why don't they educate their girls, how valued they are, and that their body is holy.

Why blaming the woman, when the man did not do his job and betrayed the secretariat and the trust, instead, he is setting in the backyard drinking beer with the boys, a gangster, happy with his muscles, showing off in front of the boys and don't do anything in his life, as if he is doing a favor to his woman by keeping her.

The damage has been done!

Is there a hope?

There is always a hope. There is always a way; but it is for those who want their children to rise and shine. Those who don't want their children to commit the same mistakes that the parent had.

However, honesty is obliged me to say, there is still good men who took the leap of faith to take care of their women. On the other hand, there is also bad women who chose the wrong path in their life. Also I cannot ignore the fact that there is good families out there, fathers and mothers, who is taking care of their boys and girls, and teaching them the rights from wrongs, and there is too many good examples in every society.

The purpose behind this post is more of a wake-up call, to offer help as much as we can, for those who are seeking the help.


This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting. On behalf of humanity, I am sorry!

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Do Not Smoke, when you take the wifey out! Say What Now?!

This post is not about quitting smoking, so chill out!

Hi, this is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and in this topic we are talking about a habit we are keep doing that actually makes us look idiots.

I am a smoker and this does not make special; because simply more than 50 Percent of the Philippines populations do, at least 48 Percent of Filipinos, in addition to other nationalities just like me who lives in the Philippines.

Here is the deal! My wife does not smoke, so the fact that I grab her hand to drop by 711 to grab a smoke and go to smoking area to smoke, I am sure it is not one of her interest.

I need to smoke, and I get it, but put in your mind that the weather in Manila is not that good and you will always need to be in a place with either clean air or at least air-conditioned.

I realized that I am actually making her suffer, but she is so nice to me that she would not talk about it.

So what we should do?

Personally, I started to leave my pack of cigarettes at home when I go out with her, or if ever the place we are going to is allowing smoking inside the air-conditioned area - then why not - There is only few places allowing that, but there food sucks. (If you know a place with good food that allowing smoking inside, I beg you to share it with me)

There is another option I don't prefer; because it will make me look more idiot, which is leaving my wife a lone, so I can grab my smoke in the smoking area - what an idiot! -. In that case she will prefer to go with me, even though she does not like it, but for her it is better than sitting alone - Exactly! I am double idiot! - .

What I am trying to say is, don't get fooled by yourself and think that because you are a man, you can do whatever you want. We are supposed to take care of our women, even these little details will make a huge difference in your relationship.

Imagine, when your wife is already got used to that you smoke, and actually she will ask you to smoke, and your responds to her will be: " I'd rather to spend the time talking with you than wasting it in a smoking area". Man, she will love you!

But I again, if you find an air-conditioned spot that you can smoke at, then forget about what I said to you and just grab a smoke man.


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Hate traffic? Running late for a meeting? (Ride with Angkas)

They say beat the traffic.

This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and in this topic we are beating the traffic with Angkas application.

I don't care what you wear going to work, tuxedo, casual, smart casual, classic, even shorts, it doesn't matter; because you have to try this beast!

Hands down, best service I have ever experience for 4 years since I arrived in the Philippines.
To be honest, I just want to know where was this service 4 years ago.

Coverage Area: Makati and BGC. Well, they go other places too, but they need to take different routes since they are not with good terms with some parts of the Philippines, like "Mandaluyong". Somebody didn't get paid? Maybe?

According to their application, base fare: 50 Pesos for 1st 2 M, then they charge you per KM 10 Pesos. - Not bad at all.

Continuing: Fares may go up when demand is high. - Okay fair enough, they need to earn money and pay their drivers.

The question remain:

• Is the services available all the time? Answer: You have 90 percent chance you will have a driver.
• Is Angkas safe? Yes it is very safe
• Are the drivers professional? Well, I would rate them 4 out 5

Let's be honest, we are humans, and we are away from being perfect, perfection is only for God, but I had some issues with few drivers. It could be the language barrier, I am not sure, but I believe it is just miscommunication, specially when they text you in Tagalog, and I have to guess what do they mean, but I have learnt myself so far that "Dito n po/poh" means, they have arrived at the pick up location.

Some of them they already know me already from previous trips, so they text in English, impressive!

It is on-demand motorcycle taxi service and it is from my humble opinion, very convenient.

Here are the list of the questions that 99 percent of the drivers ask me:

1. First time with Angkas, sir?
2. Where are you from sir?
3. How long you have been living here, sir?
4. Do you speak Tagalog sir?
5. Do you take Angkas everyday, sir?
6. Do you work here sir?
7. Do you love Angkas. sir?

Ride On!

I have no complaints about the questions, I get it, I am a foreigner, and I look foreigner; but sometimes I just finish my work and I just don't want to have a conversation on my way home, but again the majority of them are really nice and always having a smile on their face, just what I need after a tough day.

Oh, one more thing! They never ask for more money, they stick to the fare on the application.

Only one of them, he was old guy, and he was working on a regular taxi before, he mentioned, he hates it when there is a promo code; because he prefer to get money on the spot for his family, instead of waiting for the pay day.

Almost forgetting! You see, every once in a while they do something really nice. They text you a code, a promo code, you can use, a discount on the original fare, from 10 pesos up to 50 pesos (20, 30, 40), and so on.

Usually in the weekend, or for the people who has night shift after 12:00 AM. Also they have different set of codes with different discounts, but the one I shared with you are the most common.

Already, that was my experience with Angkas, make sure to download that bad boy on your phone from Apple Store, or if you have Andriod, check Google Play store, and look for "Angkas".

This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting. Beat The Traffic, Sir!

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Quit your job! What?!!

Quit your job, yeah you heard me!

This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and in this topic I am urging you to quit your job.

"If you don't achieve your dream, someone else will hire you to achieve theirs."

I know talking is easy, but taking an action is totally way different thing. If it was easy, everyone would go for it.

So what I am asking you to do is, break the chain of the corporate world while you're still young, be the change, be the person that you want to be; because one day, your child will be proud of you.

I will help you to be that change, and I promise you I will share every piece of information I have that actually helped to be the change that I want.

I am not selling you anything. I just know that life is tough, but I was able to come up with a format that might actually work for you, the key of success , the Alpha life style hack that will change your life.

Stay away from anyone does not appreciate you, giving you negative energy, or does not respect you.
Work out, make lots of squats, drink coffee before you workout - (Replacement for pre-workout supplements) -, and eat well, not much, but just enough for your muscles, 2 meals a day is enough.

Don't drink Coke, drink water, a lot of water, and if you are smoker, your body automatically will refuse it little by little, you don't need a program to quit, it will happen automatically.

There is a lot of vitamins you can buy to help in the workout process, as long you are eating, the vitamins will do amazing job. I can share with you the vitamins that helped me personally, i lost weight and i gained weight, so I have a really good idea about these products and how to use them.

Read, focus on how the world started and how it will end, have a copy of King James bible, and Quran, I prefer English language myself. Personally I prefer to start reading on the Abrahamic religions, which are three, Judaism, Christianity, and Islam.

For the Quran, it works a bit different than the bible; since there is no such and English version of it, but there is English translation, there is different between a translation copy and version copy.

Then educate yourself about Hinduism books and Atheist books and any big religion in world wide.

This will open for you very interesting topic and will attract a very interesting people.

Try to avoid alcohol, it is not good for the work out process, go to clubs only for dancing and listening to music.

Learn a new language, Hebrew, Arabic, Farsi, Turkish, Japanese, in case your dream is big and will cost you money, these languages are actually high paid salaries, you will have enough to enjoy your life and to save money in the same time, so you can make your dream come true.

If you followed this, you are feeding your body and your soul, and you will find that losers started to get away from your way; you will find that you are too good for them, and they will realize that they are not as much cool as you, and they might stop you though from what you're doing, if you had struggles with this, try to disappear for a while from their sight, until you accomplish what you want

You will end up knowing the right people, perhaps the right man, or the right woman. It only takes two people to create a great family, and that is different level of happiness.


Now your mind is clear, all your problems seem small, and you are big.

Then, you will know what you want in life, you brain is ready to receive all the positive things.

This is not magic, I thought it was, and i quite the process so many times and I actually doubted it.

Then I figured, I got nothing to lose, and I was patient, you will start to notice the changes less than 3 month, and to maximize the results, you will need to continue, respect the process, and always remember, you did not come from nothing, you are one of billion creations of God, and he would not want to see you lost, because everyone has a specific skill, a purpose, and it is your job to look for it, and you will never find it by getting drunk and hang out with losers.

By this, you will realize what is the proper job for you, you will break the chain of routine.
You will see how great you can be, you will maximize the job that you have to save enough to do your thing, it could be a small food cart that will led to a restaurant, it could be a personal training that will led to opening a GYM, maybe a public speaker, maybe a famous Youtuber with good pay, maybe a blogger just like me, to share your experience to the world, maybe a teacher to teach the next generations, or a freelancer or translator, unless you want to take major like a doctor, engineer, a plice officer.

When you are building your character and investing in yourself, you choose what you want to do for the rest of your life.


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Single Moms....From my perspective!

Single Moms! A sensitive topic.

This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and we are taking this topic to the next level. It is time to speak the truth.

When I say a single mom, I do not mean widowed, I do not mean divorcee, but I mean a single mom.

Lets's go back in time, you know, high school maybe, teenager life why not, okay good, stop right there!

So, what we got here! An innocent girl who is in love with a boy, not yet a guy, they are both kids, no parents supervision, with the media and internet nowadays, there are no limits, pop music, rock, RN'B, rap, hip hop, you name it, everyone trying to blindly imitate the super stars, everyone want to be a STAR.

The lyrics touch the soul and abuse it to the limit, with the absence of supervision, you get a lost generation who refuse to live and accept reality and choose fantasy over reality, and who does not?

When you are too young to take a decision, when you are in a dilemma between following your mind or your heart, don't we all have been there?

So here is one out of hundreds scenarios that the society is ignoring...

The girl who fell in love with a guy in school, she has a crush on him, both are living in their own bubble, she wants to prove her love to him, on the other hand, he is waiting for a prove from her end, living the moment, exploring each other, no limits, no boundaries, no parents, no nothing.

She wants to feel sexy and wanted, too early for this? Well, she has different opinion, actually both of them has different opinion, but they don't understand the consequences of their own actions. Too young? Again they both have different opinion, free world, freedom, new world order, be what you want to be.

Temporary happiness that ruins a woman's life forever; because she gets pregnant without a marriage.

The Kid, gets panic, OMG! I am a father? Now he realize he is too young to be a father, he finds his way to break up with her.

What are her choices, she is having a baby on the way, i am not going to talk about how she will deliver the news to her family, it is indeed a tough process, specially if she came from poor family.

She drop her school, looking for cheap job, because she is not even a graduate, wants to prove to her family and her society that she is adult and she can take of herself.

Girl, you are very young and beautiful, you don't have to go through this, you are valued, your body is sacred, why you need to do this to yourself? Because the truth is, you don't need to prove anything to anyone.

Wait for the right time, the one who have created you and brought you to this world will never forget about you, you are not suppose to suffer, you are suppose to life your age, and graduate, and chase your career, and make your dreams come true.

The time and energy you will waste on the wrong relationship, you can use it to invest in your self, work out, no need to go to GYM, not everyone can afford it, workout at home, be sexy for your future husband, marriage is beautiful and worth waiting for. But be careful, you don't need to be with a guy who appreciate how sexy you are, big mistake, you want a guy who appreciate your mind, your character, no one is perfect, and your mind matter.

The media is telling you, in order for you to be a lady, you have to show more the society, don't fall for this girl, you are not an object, you are not an item, you are a beautiful creature that God brought to the world, to teach and educate generations after generations, bring leaders that the world needs, you are meant to be a leader not follower, you are matter.

Teenage is not an easy stage, but if you work on your self steam and confidence with working out and eating healthy food, you will find your self in way different bubble, you will be in control of your life, not some douche will control you.

I have seen and experience so many things in life, I have talked with so many people, you can trust me on this when I say it, live your own age, work out, eat healthy, and the time will fly and you will be amazed with how this effected your life.

But I have to say, there is always good men out there who is taking care of their women. Also there is bad women who chose to do wrongs. There is good parents as well who knows how to take care of their children, there is too many good examples out there in every society.

The purpose behind this post is to offer help as much as we can, for those who are seeking the help.

This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting. Too young to suffer!

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Marriage Dilemma (Her feelings matter) / The End [Part 4 of 4]

Marriage, Oh Boy!

You know! Any normal man would love to live happy and exciting marriage, not only women, but we always find a short cut to screw it up.

This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and in this topic we are going to continue what we have discussed in previous post.

Everything is fine and everything looks good, until this happens.

Out of nowhere, another woman shows up in the picture, you think she is attractive, the way she is talking, she speaks your language, and you feel homesickness and finally found someone to talk to, but this is your side of the story and this could be your intention - in the beginning -, but she has different plans for you.

Your wife started to feel that you have changed. The truth is she already knows.
She has always been worried about this moment. She is aware she is not that super sexy anymore.

She is giving you hard time now, she has no proof, She is giving you a hard time now, she has no proof, but sooner or later she will. Her sixth sense is sending her brain a signal, the signal says, "Hey! There is another woman".

This is no longer about feeling insecure about not being in shape, or for gaining weight! Oh no, this is about another woman trying to take her man away from her.

What you don't know as a man, you have just broken, humiliated, and destroyed her self steam, her self confidence, what a shame.

This beautiful creation of God, that God has gifted you, this woman you have chosen, and you are doing this to her?

I am not saying all women are good at all, but also not all men are good either.

So now, your woman try to protect her family, try to protect her marriage and keep her husband.

So she take a decision and step down from her throne. She decides to humiliate her self, and give up her pride for the sake of protecting her family.

She goes to the place where her husband works, just to face the other woman who is trying to take her husband from her.

And she gets the opportunity to face her, but also she gets one of those responses that leave marks and hurts more than getting stabbed with a knife. - Your Man is the one who came to me -.

Listen! Why would you do that to your wife? Why you told her those sweet words when you first met her, why you decided to marry her, why you gave her hope then took it away from her, you have no right to do this to a woman.

Everyone in the office know the story, your actions speak louder than words, your actions say, my wife is a piece of trash, my wife is useless, my wife is not important, she is nothing, she is a joke, so every time people will see her in the mall, or a grocery shop, first thing will cross their mind, is what your actions say about her.

Are you happy now?
Look what you have done! Yet, she has not leave you yet, she is still hoping that love will come around once again and you will love her again.

Can't you see?
You have lost your way my friend.

I am done here. I said what I had to say and I said what I have felt.

I hope you felt something too.

That woman who is trying to steal you, she don't give a damn about your life, and the moment she walked in your life, knowing that you are married man, she will leave for someone better than you.

Because for her, she has no morals, no ethics, how could you trust her, how could you ignore what she is doing? The time you waste on her is too long that you should have spent it fix your own marriage, this is a poison in a honey, you see her attractive, the way she approach you, the way she is close to you, she is not playing, she knows exactly what she does to you, in fact she is too smart that you will think she is natural, she is too smart that will make you think she is not trying with you, but she is, absolutely is.

You think everything is easy with her. Of course, she is not your wife, her make up is always on, dressed up and looking good. Yes I know, but your wife was like this once, and she can be the most sexist woman on earth if you gave her the chance, if you left her up, if you take care of her heart, if you left her self-steam up, her confidence. Don't be selfish and be a human, be fair, become what a man supposed to be.

Story has not ended yet. It is your move now!


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Marriage Dilemma - The Story Continues! [Part 3 of 4]

Marriage Dilemma! Before we proceed with our story, I just want to grab your attention to something very important. I was really surprised if not shocked that men always ignoring it!

This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and in this topic we are getting closer to some facts and we - Men - are ignoring.- In the light of our previous post.

When you decide to get marry, our women are not the same as when we were dating them.

Meaning, she was super fit, at one point when you were dating, she looks stunning, always pretty, make up is perfect, no responsibilities on the man except that the gentleman will pay the bill of the restaurant on that day. and that is it.

After marriage, things change, not because she does not want to, but because she does not have the time to do all of that; because you live together now, she can not be perfect!

Specially, if she gave birth to a baby, she gain weight, she eats more, and most likely you can kiss the "super fit" goodbye.

It is not her fault, this is how women body works. Forget about those women on Instagram, this is not real, this is photo editing, light system, Photoshop, even if those are real women, let me tell you my friend, those are models and they are doing this for living, they are getting paid to look like this, if they don't look like this, they will lose there jobs. Same goes to actresses and singers. This is the media working with all what they got to destroy your small family.

Instead of you saying nice words to your woman and help them with their self steam, you are destroying any potential they might have to change.

You think they don't know? You think they are happy with their body changes? Believe they are not, and you are not helping them to be better, you don't show your understanding, and you blame them for not taking care of themselves.

Instead, you start to look for someone else, someone perfect, someone with nice body, just like the time when you met your lovely wife.

Are we stupid? or we're just ignoring these facts?

Gentlemen! The sexy girl you are going out with instead of your wife, she does not have a life, and even the fact she is going out and dating a married man is enough clue that she has no morals for accepting dating you.

That Girl!

She was not there when you worked hard and saved money to buy this apartment/house/car, on the contrary, your wife did, and she was patient with you and supported you emotionally if not financially,  and she gave you everything she can, just to see you happy.

The other girl, she is seeing a handsome guy with a car and stable job, a guy can afford her dinner and to show off in front of her friends and to satisfy even her needs, and of course the guy is so dump; because he is seeing her perfect, always dressed up with full make up, and he forgets the fact that his wife even more beautiful than her, but stupidity is stronger than facts.

Now your wife feels insecure, and you are the one and only reason behind that, congratulations! you just broke your wife.

You think that it is easy and your wife is just jealous and giving you hard time? Seriously!

Let me tell you, this is not jealousy, this is not even close to that. This you destroying, demolishing, breaking, knocking down, and killing the heart of the woman you have loved once and the woman how has accepted to be your wife, the mother of your baby, even if God did not grant you a baby yet, still i would not change a thing from what i said. Be careful, this is a woman heart you are dealing with.

 So if you think that it is "jealousy", PLEASE THINK AGAIN!

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Is it really a dilemma?!! #Marriage [Part 2 of 4]

Marriage! Is it really a dilemma?

This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting and in this topic we are going to continue what we have discussed in previous post.

Here is a story, I am afraid that it is actually a real one and it is one of the cases I have observed, and hopefully it will have a happy ending.

With faith and logic, anything is possible, and maybe the love will come around.

I am not exaggerating!

You travel abroad for a vacation, not worrying about a thing, you are young, you got cash, not too much, but just enough for your fantastic vacation.

Your destination is the Philippines Islands. Everyone knows how beautiful that place is, too many islands and too may places to go.

You meet the girl of your dreams, and this is so beautiful, when you are not planning to fall in love.

Anyway, couple of dinners and couple of drinks, you like the attitude, she is smart, knowledgeable, and you have enough time to just know it, I want to marry this girl.

Let's stop here for a moment, so you left your country, not a single señorita grabbed your attention, and you go way far to a country that don' speak your language, and the only language you are using to communicate is English, and you were impressed by this woman you have met, the woman of your dreams, and she is 10 baby.

When you decide to get marry and settle down with a stable job, it is a one way road, not because divorce is bad or hard, but because you know you have felt something, you felt different, something happen inside of you, that makes you want to take this relationship to next level, and you should; because you can't just ignore this feeling that easy.

This is not a scene from a movie, or chapter from a novel either, this feeling is real, and your job is to make sure, that this feeling will continue growing and protect it.

People change, and this is understood, but there is a reason behind that change. Break up, not necessarily is the solution when people change. However, when there is a change, it is indeed a sign for you to realize that "Something is wrong need to be fixed", and not that"Something is wrong, it is time to runaway". I am just saying it happens and I have seen a lot of break ups in front of me and relationships ended, even though they had a chance to work there relationships out, but instead they took the easy.

The good news is, so far, for this story I am sharing with you, no one has changed, yet!

This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting. Stay Tuned for next!
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Marriage.. What a dilemma?!! [Part 1 of 4]

This blog is on relationships. To be more precise, it's about marriage.

Marriage is beautiful! And don't believe anyone who tells you that it's not. Yes marriage is beautiful - by default - Yet it is hard to understand, or you can say that it's "NOT EASY" for everyone to get the hint of it. What was possible yesterday with old peeps, it may not work for us today, life was easier before, in a way that by time, marriage became more complicated, and so is everything beautiful, it is always complicated. Can you describe how you feel when you eat chocolate? It is complicated. Exactly! Other than this, having a stable marriage now, especially these days, it is something, it really is.

You don't see it beautiful; because of many reasons. Maybe the information that was exposed to you are actually came from wrong resources, like movies, books, or even a blog just like this one. Maybe you are getting your information from people don't have the privilege to discuss this topic with you, or they are losers by all means and have no rights to tell you what to do.

I will leave the judge to you.

In the light of this topic, allow me to talk to men, because believe it or not, the key is in our hand - Men - and not the women. I am not saying that women cannot have the key per se, But I believe that we - men - should do the hard work in the relationship. And I know for a fact that since life started, we have always blamed women for pretty much everything, since "The Apple", which is, decades, I mean come on, will you stop it already!

So let me be a little bit in your faith and tell you, that it is all in our hands - Men - But we have always chosen the easy way out. We have wasted too many chances and opportunities to fix all the problems we have in our relationships, that can led us eventually to eternal happiness, by understanding what marriage is all about, do not hate what you don't understand. But we are so dumb that we give it all away and continue complaining about everything and blame her instead.

Nothing more easier than running away! If you are that type person, then maybe marriage and relationship is not for you. I mean you have to be clear from the beginning, instead of hurting people's feelings. I mean Man up dude!

Not all the men necessarily is doing the same thing, I mean, through the history of men, we have always known great men, responsible men, and there is still among us so many men who are actually doing a great job, no doubts. I am just putting the light on some behaviors that need to have an end.

This is Adam from Alpha F. Consulting. Stay Tuned for more on this topic!

Other topics:

Is it really a dilemma?!! #Marriage [Part 2 of 4]

http://alphafconsulting.blogspot.com/2017/06/is-it-really-dilemma-marriage.html

Marriage Dilemma - The Story Continues! [Part 3 of 4]

http://alphafconsulting.blogspot.com/2017/06/marriage-dilemma-story-continuation.html

Marriage Dilemma (Her feelings matter) / The End [Part 4 of 4]

http://alphafconsulting.blogspot.com/2017/06/marriage-dilemma-her-feelings-matter.html

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